This is true. I have seen very few laptops that support XMP or any memory overclocking at all. Most laptops are built to run the hardware at a specific speed and no faster, discounting storage.
You could call the manufacturer of the laptop and ask them if you can tweak memory speeds in the BIOS before making the purchase. This would stop you from potentially wasting money on hardware that won't be fully supported.
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