Do you like a big family gathering or a quiet couple of days in the house or do not even celebrate it?
I usually like having a small gathering with my fiancee and some of our friends. I also do a Secret Santa with some of my friends in the US via Amazon (I'm in Canada).
We have a family gathering at our son's house - that's where the grandkids live. Our daughter lives in Philly now and that's too far to drive on Christmas day. They usually come down to us here in Virginia anyway for the holidays.
Apparently, you didn't get the memo.
Quietly!