UPD
i finally found a some sort of a solution to this "opengl bug".
I didnt really fix the bug, its still there and i still cant open blender BUT i only cant open the desktop version from the official blender site.
though the STEAM version of blender works perfectly well
I have no idea why it works like that, and i guess i got really lucky that i can access the program i need through steam. But yeah i hope this would be helpful for people to use blender or for developers to locate the problem source