Please forgive me. I am an inexperienced 66 year old man trying to hook up my desktop to two separate monitors. I have an AMD Radeon 8950 graphics card. It has two mini-Display Ports and an HDMI. I want to get an adapter for one of the mini-DisplayPorts to connect it to an HDMI cable going to a second monitor. However, trying to find the correct male or female mini-DisplayPort on the net is impossible! Seems like some sites identify the same port as male OR female!! Any way, how do I know which adapter to buy? I don't know if the mini-DisplayPorts on my card are male or female! Please help.