Hey tymkoijn1,
Thank you for providing us with the information above as requested by jamesc359. Yet, there is still much more needed for us to assist you in obtaining a proper and stable overclock of your FX8350. We need other informative data, such as the cooler/heat sink you're using for the CPU, total system/case fans including model, chassis/computer case, all other components being used including exact models, bios screen shots and/or every bios setting you currently have applied/available etc.
Although this might appear excessive, it's truly not. Considering that even with this data, we're still going into this blindly, because we have no idea what other system settings you might have applied. When attempting to obtain a proper and stable overclock, we need every detail possible, as without even the most minute detail something could go awry and we wouldn't want to provide you improper guidance.
So give us every detail, even something that you might deem unnecessary such as using molex adapters/splitters to supply power to an obscure component, we need that information as well. Anything that might give us insight as to the exact working conditions of your system, both in terms of components, as well as software such as your OS and its settings.
Once again, there simply cannot be enough information provided in situations such as these and even then, without myself or another experienced overclocker to assist on you on site if something goes wrong such as the Vcore voltage and cpu load line calibration being incorrectly adjusted even the slightest and thus the possibility of a boot loop or worse.
So, don't take any risks, take your time collecting every ounce of data possible. Do it over the course of the upcoming weekend/week and then when you're 100% sure you've collected everything imaginable, return and we'll more clearly be able to determine what the solution might be if one is available to obtain the frequency you're searching for at the moment. It's highly likely that we'll be able to get you an even higher frequency than you're searching for, while also being stable, but once again...information is required to even fathom that being a possibility.
Good luck on collecting your data and we'll see you in a few days. I'm more than willing to assist you personally and I'm surejamesc359 is as well, but I'm sure he'll agree that this is definitely the best course of action for the time being.
Have a nice day 
its PRETTY RARE that a 8350 cant hit 4.5 with reasonable Voltage //
but now everything is fine - have fun with it 
